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Alexis Conason

Towards A Diet-Free Revolution

Towards A Diet-Free Revolution Dr. Alexis Conason began her career as a clinical psychologist with a goal to help people lose weight. When she was introduced to the concept of Health at Every Size, she experienced a paradigm shift which she shares in her new book, The Diet-Free Revolution. This book encourages us to take agency over our own bodies and exposes the Diet Industrial Complex as an industry that thrives on its own failure.

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Doriana Chase

Writing My Own Erotic Stories

Writing My Own Erotic Stories A never-been-kissed junior high school student, I passed around a battered, spiral bound notebook full of the “naughty” stories I wrote to entertain my girlfriends. I may have been a virgin, but that didn’t stop me from using my Bic pen to write what I imagined to be passionate and shocking situations. My protagonist did all the bad things I didn’t dare to do: she swore, shoplifted, drank fiery amber

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Stella Fosse

Care and Feeding of Your Sexy Novel – Publishing Without an Agent

Care and Feeding of Your Sexy Novel: Publishing Without an Agent Welcome to the third part of this series on publishing your sexy novel. Here is where you can find Part 1 and Part 2. Now that you’ve signed a contract, it’s time to move from manuscript to published novel. At this point, some agents become less involved, handing off the author to the editorial and marketing professionals at the publishing house. Other agents stay involved,

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Stella Fosse

Care and Feeding of Your Sexy Novel – Negotiating with a Publisher

Care and Feeding of Your Sexy Novel Negotiating with a Publisher (without an Agent) Part One of Care and Feeding of Your Sexy Novel is here. First you wrote a great erotic novel (perhaps with inspiration from Aphrodite’s Pen).  Then you found a publisher without paying an agent (see Part 1). Now it’s time for the next phase:  negotiating your advance and your contract (which you’ll have reviewed by a literary attorney). Take a deep breath

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Stella Fosse

Care and Feeding of Your Sexy Novel – Do You Need an Agent?

Care and Feeding of Your Sexy Novel Part One:  Do You Need an Agent?  Let’s say you’ve played your way through a sexy first draft.  Then you sailed through your edits, adding great material as needed, then carving away the nonessentials like a sculptor chiseling marble.  You’ve sent your prize manuscript to beta readers, taken the best of their comments and passed on the ones that don’t serve your purpose.  You have made a final

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Stella Fosse

Publish Sexy Stories after Midlife

Publish Sexy Stories after Midlife Some of us who are writers don’t quite know what we think until we write it down.  So writing our erotic stories is liberating, even if we never show them to another living soul.  If you would like a boost to keep the pen moving, you’ll find two FREE self-taught courses on my website:  One for writing our erotic histories and the other for creating sexy stories. Each course encourages

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