The Musings & Ponderings of Stella (And Friends)

The Grandmother Hypothesis

The Grandmother Hypothesis In the 1980s, American anthropologist Kristen Hawkes observed Hadza hunter-gatherers in Tanzania, and realized that the older women spent their time collecting food for their grandchildren. This freed up the mothers to have more children. Hawkes hypothesized

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Sexual Agency Beyond Midlife

Sexual Agency Beyond Midlife In her 2016 book, “Girls and Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape,” Peggy Orenstein describes the pressure on American women to perform sexually from an early age, and to please young men while doing so. In

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Stella Fosse writes for women who refuse to disappear. Her books — spanning romance, erotica, and personal essay — celebrate the power, desire, and creativity that flourish in the second half of life.
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Blonde at 65 or The Tale of the Peacock

Blonde at 65 or The Tale of the Peacock What have peacock tail feathers ever done for the peacock? They are heavy, they harbor ectoparasites, and they add nothing to the bird’s ability to eat, drink, or move. So why

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